The three ways to look

You have two candidate people circled from Lesson 1. Those are your starting point. Now you need to figure out what they actually struggle with, which is almost never what you think it is.

Three methods. All work. All uncomfortable in their own way.

1. Watch one person for a week. Strongest signal. Most uncomfortable.
2. Sit in the community where your person already hangs out. Medium signal. Medium discomfort.
3. Read one subreddit or Discord for two hours. Weakest signal. Lowest discomfort.

The order matters. Method 1 will give you more in three days than Method 3 gives you in three weeks. Most learners default to Method 3 because it requires the least courage. If you can do Method 1, do Method 1.

Now let's go through them, starting with the one Tara used.